|Time With Tamika|
Relationships & Life
As much as Facebook is attempting to give us all the opportunity to have instant connections with those that matters....it is not. With all the days, hours and minutes we and you spend on social networking sites what are the main purposes behind it all? Everyone wants to be related to one another and to have a like mind with those that once were far-fetched. Now everyone is so accessible causing us to understand the forces of being one. but as with anything that really matters in the world we choose to ignore the signs. So many ways to connect, but we would rather spill about what honestly does not matter at all. What matters most is the love we share, and the passion we seek to endure. The pain of pressing through is your inner being thrusting individuals to see. Most do not see though, and for that reason we are living in the current world we are in. Let me tell you, things are and will happen that most are not prepared for mentally, emotionally and spiritually. We all feel it. We all know something is not right, but we ignore it. Just wait....
The other day I had a moment. I was a bit baffled and frustrated by how people act like things are great. I listen to people. Most times people either say who they really are directly to you. I remember talking to a guy, I mentioned to him that he was such a nice guy, he then told me he was not very nice. He was right. I was wrong. I saw a post on Facebook from someone speaking about their significant other. They posted a comment about how great they were. Really?? I've always believed, if things are that great, there is no need to post, flaunt, or expose that. Just simply be happy. That whole saying about sharing your happiness is a hoax. People are more likely to share themselves FAKING like they are happy. For some strange reason, human nature coaches us to act like everything is ok when clearly everything is not. When people are making bad choices, and they literally know within themselves their entire lives will suffer from it, the sad part is, they will steadily act like everything is grand. Things are not what they seem. Look at some celebrities, listen to their words, pay attention to their expressions. Society places these people on a pedestal thinking they have better lives than us "regular" people. The fact is, most of them are struggling just like the rest of us. Money, and fame does NOT make you happy. We all know that, but so many still chase it. Again, things are not what they seem. SOOOOO what is real?? Do you really think those that flaunt their marriage, relationships, and friendships, are having a blast? Probably not! Just remember, whenever someone is telling you something, nine times out of ten....the statements being made.....are not what they seem.
Author: Tamika Carlton
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