|Time With Tamika|
Relationships & Life
There are people in this world that are so different from others that their main focus is to only help others. No matter what may go on in their personal lives their main goal, and destiny is to fuel the fire for someone else. They live with enough, and will forever be blessed with enough, but everyday they wake with a purpose and give to you for reasons beyond them. In worldly terms it makes no sense, but as they continue to apply themselves to seeing who you really are, they seek to do nothing more than to assist your life, and to help you be better in the best way that they know how. The truth is their time here is short, or maybe long depending on the lives they are meant to touch. They expect nothing in return. They only seek to be a gift to you, one that you acknowledge and accept. Without true acceptance their presence is in vain. Open your heart, and understand they are here just for you...
We are each here to follow our own personal calling, and being able to figure out what that is, is not as complicated as we make it to be. Whatever drives your life into happiness is what your calling stems from. The issue with understanding then accepting the gifts, and the calling you were literally placed here to pursue is a concept more complicated than actually finding, and figuring out what it is. There is a insatiable need to gain from your actions, when the truth is you are to give because it feels good, and because it is the right thing to do. Expect nothing in return, and you gain more than you could have bargained for. My purpose is not easy, my calling is one that I have to concentrate on in every moment, but the joy of being able to speak and know you are doing what you are meant to do is far better than wandering with no direction. I always say follow your heart, go with what feels good, not what makes sense. Sense is logical, and associated with the mind, while feeling is emotional and connected to the spirit, and your heart. We struggle with that. In my case, in some moments I have a tendency to be anxious because I am anticipating something. This is not so bad, the soul knows when something great is coming, but being able to focus and re-direct that energy of anxiety will benefit you and others more than you know.
To those I love, I am sending you positive energy and hoping you are being directed to
I know I'm not the only one that thinks about what if?? What if I did not meet that person? What if I went the other route? What if I simply just did not care?? The biggest what if for me, what if I died today?? What would happen? Would people care?? I think everyone wants to know they are needed and have a purpose to fulfill. We all want to feel that the world would be a different place without our physical presence, right?? In thinking about that last what if question, you have to think about the memories you have left behind, and the legacy of your name. My soul warrants the timing of generating favorable memories to the heart. I allow the universe to be one with me so I can achieve the growth I need. It is not easy. Most times to love, may mean to be ignored. To give, may mean you will not reap the rewards immediately. To ask questions, you get the answers, but maybe not the way you expected them to come. Emotionally I am breaking down because I can feel the emotions of so many others. I inhibit the pain of those I see, and those I love. I can see what most would probably not like for me to see. The pain of seeing, but to not be seen is probably the deepest pain one can ever experience. As I walk, breathe, and grow in this world, and realm of life, the only memory and destiny I hope to leave behind is to have acknowledged the depths and presence of those I have come in contact with. At the end, when it is all said and done, people want to know they are cared for. I promise with every fiber of my being, with every breath I take, those I have been blessed to be amongst have made more of an impression on me than I did them, and more than anything else, I remember, love and acknowledge their presence.
Thank you to YOU!!
It is super easy to be selfish, to take on what you want rather than the needs of others. It is easy to follow, and not create your own path. It is super easy to be someone else, and not be yourself. Taking the easy way naturally takes less energy, that is why the unique ones are less common. The urgency of being extraordinary has never been needed as much as it is now. The followers will easily be separated from the leaders, and the leaders are the ones to watch, right??? To be kind is more of a task because you must go out of your way to be accommodating. The funny thing about kindness is how it has the immediate capability to ignite a different happy emotion within the soul of yourself and others. Karmic behaviors are desperately needed. In a time when everyone is rushing to do what society deems important and appropriate, there is a need to step back, take a moment and sense the needs and wants for someone else. If you can be brave enough, and considerate enough to show how much you care for another, the world becomes a better place. For those that know me, I love hard. I am here to protect, love, and change. That is my mission, and my daily actions will showcase this. In stating that, I encourage you all to do the same. Remember someone else, and go out of your way to make it known to them that they are important to your life, and the world. The feeling of love....is great...
The ones I love, know it, without a doubt. My hope for them is to know I am here for them no matter what, and ultimately my wish is for them to embrace, then spread that same love.
Author: Tamika Carlton
I am simply motivated, focused and always inspired!
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